=)The person who is moving into
meditation, or who is moving on the path
of love, will be helped if he accepts
the world as it is. Worldly people never
accept the world as it is –they are
always trying to change it. They are
always trying to make something else.
They are always trying to fix things
into a different order, they are always
trying to do something outside. The
religious person accepts what so ever is
on the outside as it is.

He is not
disturbed, he is not distracted by the
outside. His whole work consists on
moving inside. One moves through love,
another moves through meditation, but
both move inside. The religious world is
the world of the within. And the within
is the beyond.

=)My whole teaching consists on two
words, “meditation” and “love”. Meditate
so that you can feel immense silence,
and love so that your life con become a
song, a dance, a celebration. You will
have to move between the two, and if you
can move easily, if you can move without
an effort, you have learnt the greatest
thing in life.

=)Love will give you the first proof
that life is not meaningless. The people
who say life is meaningless are the
people who have not known love. All that
they are saying is that their life has
missed love.

=)In a better world, with more
understanding, love will be all over.
Children will see what caring is.
Children will see what joy it brings
when you care for somebody. Love should
be accepted more, violence should be
rejected more. Love should be available
more. Two persons making love should not
be worried that someone should know.
They should laugh, they should sing,
they should scream in joy, so that the
whole neighbourhood knows that somebody
is being loving to somebody –somebody is
making love. Love should be such a gift.
Love should be so divine. It is sacred.

=)The most intelligent people are the
most sexual people. This has to be
understood, because love energy is
basically intelligence. If you cannot
love you are somehow closed, cold; you
cannot flow. While in love one flows.
While in love one feels so confident
that one can touch the stars.

=)Be true to love, and don’t bother
about partners, whether one partner or
many partners is not the question. The
question is whether you are true to
love. But if it is possible, if you love
a person and live the whole life with
him or with her, a great intimacy will
grow and love will have deeper and
deeper revelations to make to you. It is
not possible if you go on changing
partners very often. It is as if you go
on changing a tree from one place to
another, then another; then it never
grows roots anywhere. To grow roots a
tree needs to remain in one place. Then
it goes deeper; then it becomes stronger.

=)Intimacy is good, and to remain in
one commitment is beautiful, but the
basic necessity is love. If a tree is
rooted in a place where there are only
rocks and they are killing the tree,
then it is better to remove it. Then
don’t insist that is should remain in
the one place. Remain true to life
–remove the tree,because now it is going
against life.

—-Adeanto—-

Goodbye my Lover…
Ketika kau datang padaku dengan membawa
luka hatimu dan kegamangan yang mendalam, ketika tangisan mu tertumpah
dalam pelukanku. aku berusaha untuk menyembuhkan luka dan galau hatimu
itu, menghapus air matamu dengan penuh perhatian,sehingga aku bersimpati padamu.
Aku
selalu mengirimkan doa-doaku dan energy-energy penyembuhanku di setiap
saat agar kau bangkit dan menjadi wanita yang kuat, tegar, sabar ,
ikhlas dan menemukan kepercayaan dirimu kembali.
Dan ketika luka hatimu telah berangsur sembuh, kaupun malah mulai menggodaku, datang dan terus datang padaku….Sehingga akhirnya akupunmalah tersungkur dihatimu.

Akhirnya akupun mencintaimu!.
Akhirnya akupun menyayangimu!.

Aku berikan hatiku, pikiranku, jiwaku dan segenap kemampuanku. Aku
mencintaimu dengan tulus, aku menyayangimu  dengan sepenuh hatiku dan
ikhlas.
Aku berikan segalanya untukmu, aku menyayangimu apaadanya
walau mahkota dan setengah dari jiwa ragamu telah kau berikan kepada
lelaki durjana yang kemudian mencampakanmu ibarat seonggok sampah dalam
keterpurukan.
Ya…aku mencintaimu dengan semua keadaanmu…..
Ya…aku menyayangimua dengan semua ketulusanku…..
Dan
dikala engkau mengatakan:” mengapa kita tidak bertemu dari dahulu?”.
Kitapun merasakan qita telah saling mengenal dari sejak lama…!
Dan
dikala kau mengatakan; aku adalah malaikat pelindungmu, akupun semakin
tersanjung dan aku merasakan menemukan bidadari kecilku.
Aku terus berusaha meraih hatimu yang kadang masih terpaku kepada lelaki itu.
Aku meyakinkanmu, bahwa ada aku yang akan terus menjaga hatimu….!

Tetapi ketika hatimu telah sembuh dari luka itu dan angin godaan
diluar mulai menerpamu, kaupun malah tergoyah kembali. Goyah ibarat
pohon tertiup angin kencang. hatimupun tidak teguh, sama seperti kau
ketika kau bersama dengan lelaki yang merenggut kesucianmu itu…!
Kau RAPUH, kau tak punya Arah.
Kaupun mulai meninggalkanku yang berusaha mati-matian menyayangi, mencintai dan memahami hatimu.
Akupun
sering mengingatkanmu,agar kau tidak terjatuh kembali kejurang
pergaulan “malammu” itu.Dan kaupun berjanji untuk tidak sperti itu lagi.
Seiring dengan berjalannya waktu, akupun mulai terluka dan tidak
percaya lagi padamu, pada cerita2 kebohonganmu. ketika aku tahu dan
menyadari kau sering menginapkan teman lelakimu di kamarmu.
Aku terluka atas kebohonganmu. Aku tak percaya lagi atas pengingkaran janji-janjimu…!
Aku sadari kau memang seperti itu, aku mengerti mengapa mantanmu itu meninggalkanmu.

Walau,  sekarang aku masih suka memimpikanmu dan terbangun dikala tengah malam tiba.
Aku masih ingat senyuman manismu, aku masih ingat dan ingin menyentuh bibir tipis dengan kumis tipis seksimu itu.
Hatiku masih terbutakan olehmu. Aku masih terbuai kata-kata manjamu.
Kau meruntuhkan semangat dan menghancurkan hatiku.
Aku harus tegar dan kuat meninggalkanmu.
Aku bisa hidup tanpamu.
Aku akan bisa merangkai hari-hariku.

GOODBYE MY LOVER……
GOODBYE MY FRIEND…..
I CAN LIVE WITHOUT YOU….
WALAU KAU TELAH MENGHANCURKAN MIMPI-MIMPIKU….
I’M SORRY I GOODBYE……..!
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Now…I don’t care how are you today….
Now…I don’t care where are you going tonight…
Now…I don’t care with whom are you ML….
Now…I don’t care how manyboys ‘drive your body’…..
Now…I don’t care by who are you pregnant……
BECOUSE
You make me  CRY, breaking my Heart, take  out  my  Dreams  away.
You make my heart BLIND…!
I only can remember you,remember us, remember our memories.
GOODBYE MY LOVER,GOODBYE MY FRIEND…..!